Post by YNRP on Nov 20, 2005 22:13:17 GMT -5
Don't know what to do.
I've liked someone for a really long time, his name shall be "Bob" (haha, not his real name, fyi). Anyways, in Sep/Oct I told him how I felt about him and he said he felt the same way. Anyways, he liked some other girl but then he wouldn't pursue anything with her cause he liked me too. He was afraid of hurting either one of us, but decided after weeks of thinking, that he was going to ask the other girl. I had known all along she was dating someone else, but couldn't tell him cause it wasn't my place to tell. Anyways, so he was upset about it.. and so I didn't think he'd want to be with me anymore. Then, he told me he still liked me but because his mom was so stupid about me (honestly, she hates me) that he couldn't be with me.
Of course, I still like him.. everyone said we'd be such a cute couple, and I agree. However, since the time he told me "I still like you.. but my mom, it just couldn't work" we haven't talked about our feelings for each other or dating.
I had a party the other day, and of course I invited him and his sister... AND HIS MOM LET HIM! woot woot! Anyways, at many times in the night, I'd kinda go off alone and he'd follow like he wanted to talk to me, but then ONE of my friends (grrr!) followed him and I.. so we couldn't talk!! GRRR!! It happened everytime we got alone enough to talk, so I think he just gave up trying. I flirted with him a little bit, trying not to be obvious and he didn't really flirt back, but he just acted a bit more caring towards me than he's ever been. Such as encourageing me to climb a tree even though I sucked at climbing trees... and I did it, and he held my blanket (cause its freezing here and so I was all wrapped up in a blanket). Then, like my feet were freezing, so he took off his extremely warm shoes and I put them on.. but felt bad because 1) i looked like an idiot wearing really big shoes 2) now his feet would get cold. So I took them off, but he didn't put them back on for like forever.. I think he was trying to let me know I could have them back or something. So he was being really awesome and such.. and then we went inside and into our basement (part of it is finished) and we were hanging out there until his parents got there.. but we still didn't get to be alone.. Before he left, he gave me a hug and we bumped heads (how dorky).. and it made my whole night better. I just squealed when he walked out the door. hehe.
Anyways, I was talking to my best friend, Mary, and she was saying that, I'll just quote her, "When you went off to find Melody (my cat), he got up and Kenzie(his sister) kinda giggled and it seemed like she knew why he got up to follow me... but then when Anna started following I couldn't stop her.."
So... that made me really upset, cause now I don't know what he wanted to talk about.
Anyways,
When I'm talking to him on IM he just is kinda shyish and doesn't really talk a lot.. and I don't get to see him often (cause almost everything we would see each other at has been cancelled for the holidays!).. I get to see him Tuesday... and I really want to talk to him..
What do you all think of the situation?
does it sound like he is over me? or what should i do?
I've liked someone for a really long time, his name shall be "Bob" (haha, not his real name, fyi). Anyways, in Sep/Oct I told him how I felt about him and he said he felt the same way. Anyways, he liked some other girl but then he wouldn't pursue anything with her cause he liked me too. He was afraid of hurting either one of us, but decided after weeks of thinking, that he was going to ask the other girl. I had known all along she was dating someone else, but couldn't tell him cause it wasn't my place to tell. Anyways, so he was upset about it.. and so I didn't think he'd want to be with me anymore. Then, he told me he still liked me but because his mom was so stupid about me (honestly, she hates me) that he couldn't be with me.
Of course, I still like him.. everyone said we'd be such a cute couple, and I agree. However, since the time he told me "I still like you.. but my mom, it just couldn't work" we haven't talked about our feelings for each other or dating.
I had a party the other day, and of course I invited him and his sister... AND HIS MOM LET HIM! woot woot! Anyways, at many times in the night, I'd kinda go off alone and he'd follow like he wanted to talk to me, but then ONE of my friends (grrr!) followed him and I.. so we couldn't talk!! GRRR!! It happened everytime we got alone enough to talk, so I think he just gave up trying. I flirted with him a little bit, trying not to be obvious and he didn't really flirt back, but he just acted a bit more caring towards me than he's ever been. Such as encourageing me to climb a tree even though I sucked at climbing trees... and I did it, and he held my blanket (cause its freezing here and so I was all wrapped up in a blanket). Then, like my feet were freezing, so he took off his extremely warm shoes and I put them on.. but felt bad because 1) i looked like an idiot wearing really big shoes 2) now his feet would get cold. So I took them off, but he didn't put them back on for like forever.. I think he was trying to let me know I could have them back or something. So he was being really awesome and such.. and then we went inside and into our basement (part of it is finished) and we were hanging out there until his parents got there.. but we still didn't get to be alone.. Before he left, he gave me a hug and we bumped heads (how dorky).. and it made my whole night better. I just squealed when he walked out the door. hehe.
Anyways, I was talking to my best friend, Mary, and she was saying that, I'll just quote her, "When you went off to find Melody (my cat), he got up and Kenzie(his sister) kinda giggled and it seemed like she knew why he got up to follow me... but then when Anna started following I couldn't stop her.."
So... that made me really upset, cause now I don't know what he wanted to talk about.
Anyways,
When I'm talking to him on IM he just is kinda shyish and doesn't really talk a lot.. and I don't get to see him often (cause almost everything we would see each other at has been cancelled for the holidays!).. I get to see him Tuesday... and I really want to talk to him..
What do you all think of the situation?
does it sound like he is over me? or what should i do?
